Sunday, August 22, 2010

wedding bells is not what I want to hear?

So Ive been thinking about weddings a lot lately and the more I think about them the more I want to get over it. I know that sounds bad but I want to be married already. We are basically married already but I feel like if we had the wedding we will be moving forward with our lives in a new direction. Ive never cared about having a big wedding I never wanted one. I always wanted a small wedding but even that is less appealing to me Im thinking we should just take a trip somewhere and get married by ourselves with noone around. ( the only reason I even wanted a small wedding would be to have pictures to share with our kids later on in life.) Then we wouldnt have to worry about spending money on crap we dont need and will just never use or need again.
There will be a lot of angry people if we didnt have a big wedding but its not about them right?
Sometimes I wonder if I have met the only man in the world not willing to have a small wedding or elope, but than again I might be the only girl in the world that doesnt want a big wedding and crap. Because everytime we have talked he wants a big wedding which I dont get at all. But Im trying to talk him down every chance I get because I really really dont want to deal with a wedding or party or any of it really. I just want to be married to him and get on with our lives. Planning a wedding for a year or whatever (with us itll be longer than that, it did take us 5.5 years to get engaged.) but I just dont want to do it all.
Those are my thoughts on all this wedding crap haha. Ill keep you guys posted on when I can work my magic and get Ted to elope with me ;)


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  1. PalomaAugust 24, 2010 at 12:13 AM

    lol good luck! I can't say I relate to you. I mean, I don't necessarily want a big wedding but I wanted everyone important there and a small wedding just doesnt seem possible but Id like it simple and with a fun party lol I have a hard time finding balance all the time though just in general. Like even getting ready..i either feel over dressed or under but never "just right"...and im having the same issue with planning madison's bday party...but if you really want something small than maybe ted can compromise somehow. You know what's funny? I was actually going to blog earlier today about a notebook I found with things rigo & i had planned out. Well not specifically about the notebook but about plans&relationships... It's too late now to blog though so it might have to wait till tomorrow if I even decide to blog about it after all...

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  2. BerrygettoAugust 24, 2010 at 7:35 PM

    I think you should blog about it...Id like to read it thats for sure. Do you have a certain time you can only blog? Just wondering why its to late to blog...
    Yea I hope that I can talk him down on some of the stuff he wants with our wedding. I try to listen to all the stuff he wants and Im like...ummm I dont think so...can we just elope? Like seriously why do we need all this stuff its useless and wont even matter the day after and no one will remember it so what is the point? Ill keep working on it though because I just dont understand the big wedding crap. I do want a dress but only to trash it afterwards so again its all for the pictures in the end nothing else haha.

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